Be Brave Don't Bully

Creating a kinder world one choice at a time.

Be Brave, Don't Bully is a safe space for courage, kindness, and connection.
You're not alone - and you're not powerless.
Whether you've been hurt, want to help, or just believe in a better world - you're in the right place.

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ABOUT US

Be Brave, Don't Bully was created from the simple but powerful belief that kindness is courage and love will find a way.We live in a world where cruelty can spread fast - like wild fire - especially when people are hurting.But there’s another way. A brave way. A kinder way.This space is for anyone who's ever been bullied, silenced, left out, or made to feel small - and for those ready to stand up for something better.Our logo is a fingerprint heart - because each of us is human, unique, and worthy of respect.And our colour, teal green, stands for clear communication, emotional honesty, and peace.Water is our element, we chose water because:"Water is soft - but it's not weak."
It flows, not because it gives up, but because it knows its power.Water teaches us something most of us were never taught about strength:• You don't have to push to make change.
• You don't have to fight to be brave.
• You can carve canyons with presence, not pressure.
• You can wear down stone with consistency, not cruelty.Here at Be Brave, Don't Bully, we believe kindness is like water:• It meets people where they are, but doesn't lose it's shape.
• It works with what's there, not against it.
• It's gentle enough to soothe, and strong enough to transform landscapes.The fingerprint heart in our logo holds that truth:• Every person is unique, every soul leaves an imprint.
• And when kindness flows from our shared humanity - not force - it can change the world.You don't have to be loud, sharp, or mean to have impact.
You just have to keep flowing in truth.
That's the heart of this movement - soft strength. steady change.Here, we don't believe in shaming bullies or sugarcoating pain. We believe in healing, boundaries, and brave choices - one moment at a time.Whether you're seeking support, ready to speak up, or simply want to help create a kinder world: You are welcome here.

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IF YOU’RE BEING BULLIED - READ THIS FIRST

You don't deserve to be treated this way - ever.
What's happening to you is not your fault.
And you're not alone.

QUICK STEPS YOU CAN TAKE RIGHT NOW:• Speak to someone you trust - a friend, parent, teacher, or support worker.• Write down what's happening - keep screenshots, messages, dates.• Set boundaries where you can - it's okay to block, leave, or ask for space.• Breathe. Move your body. Even a small action (like a walk or a stretch) helps shift the fear.• You are not overreacting. Your feelings are valid and real.You don’t have to go through this alone - and you don’t have to fix it all today. Start with one brave step - reach out for support below.

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FREE HELP WHEREVER YOU ARE IN THE WORLD

If you’re being bullied or feeling overwhelmed, you don’t have to go through it alone.Wherever you are in the world, there are free, confidential support lines that are open 24/7 - just for you.You can talk, cry, vent, or ask for help. No judgment. No pressure. Just support.More resources will be added to this list on a regular basis, if you know of a free support group or hotline in your country or region please advise us and we will add it here.

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IF YOU’RE BULLYING SOMEONE

Hurt people hurt people. But healing people stop the cycle.
If you’re bullying someone - online, in person, or behind their back - this page is for you.

FIRST THINGS FIRST:If you’re hurting someone, that doesn’t make you evil - but it does mean something needs to change.Maybe you’re angry, insecure, overwhelmed, or trying to fit in.Maybe you were bullied too - and now it’s coming out sideways.Or maybe you’re not sure why you’re doing it, but part of you feels bad after.HERE’S THE TRUTH:• You are still responsible for your choices.
• You are still worthy of healing and help.
• You can choose a different way - and that choice is what makes you brave.INSTEAD OF BULLYING, TRY:• Pausing when you feel like lashing out.
• Talking to someone about how you feel.
• Journaling or texting yourself instead of someone else.
• Apologizing - even if it’s hard.
• Asking: What am I actually feeling right now?
• Getting help to deal with your own pain (it doesn’t make you weak).YOU CAN START OVER;The person you were doesn’t have to be the person you stay.What matters is what you choose now - and next.We all mess up.
But if you’re here, reading this - you’re already doing something brave.

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KINDNESS TOOLKIT

Because kindness isn’t weakness - it’s power with a heart.

WHAT TO DO INSTEAD OF BULLYING;If you’re angry, hurt, scared, or overwhelmed - you have choices.Bullying isn’t the only outlet.
Kindness doesn’t mean being soft.
It means being brave enough to stay human.HERE ARE A FEW ALTERNATIVES;• Take a breath before you speak - silence isn’t weakness, it’s clarity.
• Ask a question instead of making a comment.
• Walk away, not to escape - but to protect your peace.
• Speak up kindly when you see someone being mistreated.
• Check in with someone who seems left out.
• Say what you do want, not just what you don’t.Every time you choose empathy over ego, you create change.
It may not feel loud - but it’s strong.

OPTIONAL RESOURCES

• Print Kind WORD Cards

• Print A kindness toolkit
• Be an upstander, not a bystander
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BRAVE VOICES BLOG

Words that heal, empower, and connect.

These posts are for the ones who’ve been hurt, who stayed kind anyway, and who are learning to speak up for themselves - and others.Whether it’s a story from your own life or words of encouragement to someone else, every post here is a reminder:You are not too sensitive.You are not overreacting.You are allowed to take up space.New posts are added regularly - written with care and compassion.Read what resonates. Share what moves you.

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SHARE YOUR STORY

Share your Story. Ask a Question. Say Hello.

Whether you’ve experienced bullying, seen it happen, or just want to be part of creating a kinder world — we’re here for you.YOU CAN USE THIS SPACE TO;• Share your story (anonymously or with your name).
• Ask for guidance or resources.
• Suggest a topic for the blog.
• Or just say “I needed this.” That’s enough.Every message is received with care and confidentiality.

Your Message Matters.

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Thank you for being here.
Reaching out is brave - and you never know who your words might help.

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THANK YOU FOR REACHING OUT

Your message has been received - and it matters.Whether you shared a story, asked a question, or just needed to be seen... please know this:You were heard.
You were brave.
You are not alone.This movement is built on moments like this - quiet acts of courage that create ripples of change.We'll be in touch soon if a response is needed.
Until then, take care of your heart. You're doing better than you think.

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